Unlike alot of you guys and girls in Multiply who play around with their contacts "relations", those of you who think claiming to be my "sister / nephew / step-father / grandson / wife / cousin / etc etc" just coz its cute / cool / sweet / etc. and everybody else does it, forgive me if dont regard such things so lightly, nor do I think that it's cute.
in fact it's utterly annoying.
it takes blood to claim such titles of relation, or many years of friendship to be even considered one.
i'm nobody's "kuya" but my blood sister's, as much as i'm nobody's "best friend". with excemption to my orgmates, i hate people calling me "brother" and i hate calling any girl "sister". i don't care if churches do it all the time, i don't. i don't have any other "mommy" but my blood mother, and nobody has the right to claim to be.
be careful when you label me, or label yourself towards me.
because I won't make an effort to fulfill the expectations attatched to such pretentious labels.
I took the liberty of changing any inaccurate contact's relations, and rejecting any who attempt to be a relative, so please don't be surprised.
not everyone has a "cute" history of labeling each other.