Turn-ons I like about girls that they probably wouldn't expect.

1. Girls with paint or ink stains in their hands and fingers.

how often do you see those? not very often. true artists would put aside pretty nail jobs, soft and smooth hands  and clean fingernails for their real passion. paint stains = artist.

but of course it could have just come from some class project, or what if she's a house painter?

hmm..

although it may not necessarily be the same with writers (ink stains=writer) i have met amazing writers who really spend time doin it oldskool with manual scribbling and playing around with their pen when thinking, inevitably staining their hands in the process.

bottomline is -- im really into artists and writers, and i tend to notice little things that reflect the artist/writer in them.


2. Girls who can look hot wearing massive pants.

massive (a.k.a. "elephant" pants as so locally called in the early 2000's) pants, those American Blvd oldskool JNCO brand jeans or slacks that make your shoes disappear and literally sweep / mop the floor.
 
but before i continue... FYI for those who went thru the fashion stage of wearing pants like these, did you know there were unwritten rules  and impressions on wearing such things?
   
1) Massive pants should never be called "Elephant", the term itself degrades you to
jologness already if you use it.
   
2) Massive pants crotch length (ok i dunno what to call this) differs with guys and girls
wearing them. guys have the lower ones, girls who attempt to wear the "low ryder / uber low
waist" massives are dykes. on the other hand guys who wear massive pants like bellbottoms of the 70's, with the crotch part literally touching their balls then thats just gay. (i have seen such cases of this, given that they were the ones who had their massive pants tailored from scratch. apparently the tailors dont know the rules XD)

3) Massive pants are MEANT to touch the floor. NEVER tuck it in your shoes, that is like
JOLOGS to the nth power if you tuck it in. reason: good massive pants arent really cheap, and fashion desperados back then who wanted to be IN and spent their whole savings to buy a pair wouldnt have the heart to get it cut or tailored, or even gut its laylayan dirty/torn/ruined by touching the ground, so they do the next best (jologest) thing -- tuck it in their shoes. on the other hand, the more rugged / worn / torn your trouser-ends are, the cooler. it reflects the
whole artist expressionist thing, the whole deviant post-modern deconstructionalist stuff ^_^

4) When girls wear massive pants, they should never wear loose tops. it reverses the whole hotness to a negative degree and welcomes you to the category of oldskool Tibo fashion.

...so nowadays its rare itself to find a girl wearing these kinds of pants, since it probably was never really an IN thing in their fashion trends, but once in a blue moon i find the few courageous ones who really "know how to carry it". given the "rules" above and its complexity, you see why its such a turn on for me to see a girl who can look HOT in massive pants. at the same time, one who does clearly has her own "artistic" deviance-in-society to even wear such things risking to look 'boyish' or some tomboy with a spray can.

ooh spray can. thats hot XD



3. A Girl who is a closet gamer.

gamers meaning role playing games, first person shooters, realtime strategy, MMORPGs, PC, PS2, XBOX, PSP, but NOT Nintendo DS players. NDS isreally made for girls. real gamer girls are rare in itself, but when i said "closet", theyre the type who arent all out geeky on their gaming. the all out hardcore girl gamers are usually the geeky Otaku type or the borderline lesbo who hangs out with boys, not to mention looks and acts like a boy already. the closet gamer wouldnt be broadcasting or admitting whe plays the real deal games until she finds someone who is also a gamer. i like them coz girls like them are always a pleasant surprise. gamers have their own language which isnt really that easy to learn or explain. it takes real experience and alot of time. for a girl to speak MMORPG language, type and understand "l33t" (ok sorry just google that term if u dont know it). a girl who can talk hours of Final Fantasy and people overhearing us would think were talking about soap operas or movies.  The girls who get thru all the technicalities of gaming are the ones who are able to really grasp the beauty of the story (such as Final Fantasy games), where its not all about levelling up, killing monsters, or "pwning noobs".

Gamer girl = HOT.

4. A Girl who loves Street Food

Even if her family dines in Italianni's regularly, and back in college she eats in places where a waiter delivers a chit to your table after you eat (away from the commoners who stands in line bussing their own trays, paying as they order), she still would pull me aside for some good old isaw, kewk-kwek, fish/squid/chx balls, and the likes, making me swear not to tell her mom coz she will freak out if she knew her daughter ate oldskool "unsanitary" street food. i dont mind if she calls the "quail eggs in vinegar", as long as she loves it.  thats hot ^_^

5. A Girl who can seriously rap.

Girls who sing is such a trivial turn-on. but girls who rap (and not look like a stereotype boycut lesbo lover), and still maintain her girliness in her non-rapping mode, thats something else. i dont care if she gets abit too gangzta when she gets into it, its even all more impressive ^_^ Rapper girl, who can sound legit. that's hot ^_^

6. A semi-otaku girl.
Otaku's are the fanatics / officionados of Japanese manga, anime, and mostly anything related to that. about 90% of all the hardcore otaku girls i know kinda fit the description of the stereotypical mmorpg gamer girl -- boyish, kinda geeky, and hangs out with gamer / otaku boys. but thats like really hardcore, like they know too much useless details and trivia already. The kawaii-wannabe otaku girls are not that hardcore or geeky, but their purpose in life is to be one of those uber-kawaii anime girls, thus the cosplay -- theyre the types who dress like jap schoolgirls and wear those high loose socks in public. i like those types coz in a way their fanaticism/passion rules over whatever the public may think of them, which is in parallel to a true artist's characteristic. thing is, they are also the types who are totally obsessed with bishounens (young jap celebrity boys, boybands, actors) whether real or animated. thats pretty hard to top off. bishounen fanatics are a different breed, one you wont wanna cross. 
having said the ups and downs of the jap cultured fanatics, i'd prefer a balance -- thats why semi-otaku.  a girl who knows enough anime, jdrama, jmovies, jmusic, manga, has seen some and can make an interesting conversation on them, not they type who would have bishounen pics all over all of her web profiles, pages, and blogs  a girl who drops occassional kawaii expressions that otakus relate with, but not totally mimic some anime character all the time.
a girl who can pull off the legit jap idol peace sign in her photos, that real hot.

6-b. A girl who speaks Japanese.
'nuff said ^_^